By: Bhavya
“Marriages are made in heaven”, this is a phrase that is accepted and said around the globe. Marriages mean not only marrying someone who is chosen by you or your family members rather it is a relationship that two souls agree to forego with for the lifetime or we can say forever. Whether it is a love marriage or arrange marriage both has its own pro and cons. But the most beautiful thing is starting a whole new journey or a new chapter of your life with the person who you love or going to love in future. When the marriage is fixed, both the spouses has a lot of speculation in their minds about the marriage and they keep thinking whether this going to work or not, but trust me if the two souls are ready to make this work for lifelong this will definitely work. Now coming to the expectations that both the spouses have in the marriage, this could be love, care, family relationships, etc. At times, we hear that expectations kill relationships but sometimes expectations and discussions makes things better in life which works in favour of our relationships.
It nearly happens to all the newlyweds, after they are done with all the marriage rituals and the honeymoon is over they realize suddenly that they have spent much time for preparing for marriage and now it’s the time for being in marriage and knowing about the different aspects of marriage. Even if you are living with your spouse before marriage or you have just started living with him after marriage, in both the cases here are many surprises that you will be getting in coming 365 days. Expectations always comes with the relationship and the first year of marriage is always a blissful and incredible chapter in the pages of golden chapters of our life. Here are some expectations in first year of a special bond.
# Exploring each other
# Family Relations
# Unexpected Surprises
# Unplanned Vacations
# Affective valence
#Dinner Parties
#Saying “Thank You”
#Extraordinary Feeling
Try to arrange small surprises and thing for your partner on an ordinary day which makes them feel special even it is an ordinary day. It is not always necessary to celebrate and arrange surprises on special days,
sometimes surprises on ordinary days excites you more.
#Helpful Attitudes
After marriage, helping others should be done as a couple. If you volunteer for things together this may bring you much more closer by heart and makes you feel happy as well.
#Booking Trips
#Opinion Differences
Marriages are the most beautiful and unconditional bond which are made in heaven but lead in this real world. Expectations with relations should be given little space in relationship satisfaction. Least you expect more happy you will be… enjoy the incredible knot tide by the God in every year just as first year of blessed married life…
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